Have Sex When You Want to Have Sex
I had a very frustrating phone call with a dating coach recently, who basically acted like all women need to do to “hook” a man is withhold sex until they agree to be in a relationship. This is terrible advice. With me, I always wait to have sex until I see that we both genuinely mutually respect and like each other, and Sameera agrees that this is a good formula. Sometimes people have sex on the first date and it works out. Sometimes they wait and it doesn’t. There’s no numbered rule that can tell you when it feels right.